How to Know Someone While Lying?
Capable of knowing someone is lying to you will greatly help your life for the better. Try you imagine for a moment ...
Do you have an uncomfortable feeling if you can not immediately tell whether someone is telling a lie to you?- Do you live a life where you communicate with many people and often you have a feeling like someone is lying to you but you can not identify who?
In point of fact the answer is simple. Look gestures friend are you, look at the eyes and smile. Why? Because ..... body language can not lie.
I believe we all have an experience where we listen to someone tell a story and even though what he said sounded plausible and real, but there is 'something' that tells us that such a person is not telling the truth. 'A' is actually is a message from the brain to protect us. Our brain has a remarkable ability to read quickly all that we see and untangle tanda-tanda/sinyal-sinyal. The more often we train our brain to analyze something, the more quickly and accurately the ability of our brain.
There are two ways people interact with each other: the words and body language. Sometimes one of these two approaches dominates the other, but usually they are acting in concert together. In short the way it works is as follows: after brain analyzes words and body language we talk opponents, the brain will send a message to us, that would make us react positively or negatively as suspicion, belief or doubt.
When two this way, words and body language shows a synchronization, meaning that we and your friend we managed to get an effective communication and information presented is an honesty. But what if there is a contradiction between the words uttered by the way we speak it? I've read that there are more than 1 million body language. So we are here to talk about the incredible abundance tanda-tanda/sinyal-sinyal. But again as I said above, the more often we analyze the body language, the more good we also interpret what we're talking your friend a lie or honesty. Sometimes we have to combine the 2 to 3 body language to get an accurate conclusion.
Before we talk more about how to find out someone lied or not, we had better know in advance 4 types liar:
1. Occasionally liarWe all know the lie for a living do. Unfamiliar occasional liar lie, just a couple reasons why they do it, maybe because they want to protect her, her friend, who she loved or someone else. Keep in mind that behind every lie there is always a fear. Fear to face reality. Occasional liar thinking exactly what will he say to look ridiculous. But because they are not familiar lying, still saw a lot of body language signs / signals that indicate that they are lying. Until not too difficult to identify the type liar like this.
2. Liar several timesLiar over and over again are the ones who lied 'properly'. Unlike the occasional liar, liar many times do not have time to think about a lie because they lie all his life. But they actually realize that they're lying. These people are often stuck with their actions do not match what they say.
3. Experience liarNatural liars are the ones who lied continuously and often they do not realize that they are lying. Their body language was very natural look, because habitual lying. But when they pressed with questions that cornering, body language showed the contradiction that identify that they are hiding something. Type liar liar experienced quite similar to many times. Perhaps you've heard the term 'wise guy', so this is one example of the type of natural liar.
4. Professional LiarType these liars lie for a particular purpose or deliberately deceive us. They learn all the possibilities and find out exactly what they want to say. They make the scenario, consider the risk of failure and make recommendations articles. Although they are trained to use body language, but there are always some little things they missed. We know the little things with the often observed course. One example of this type is a liar like salesmen, previously sorry I mean here is that too much salesman promoting a product but the product itself has a very low quality. Other examples are the politicians who are corrupt, they deliberately deceive the public for private interests.How can you tell whether someone is lying?
Should not be a psychologist to be able to learn and know that someone is speaking a lie or honesty. A psychologist who is skilled to know exactly his patients is lying or not, as the psychologist who interviewed Princess Diana moment. He stated that Princess Diana said when interviewed honest description of infidelity of her husband, Prince Charles.
You can even analyze such ongoing training course. Psychologists also because they can read and analyze unfamiliar people every day.
As already mentioned above there are 1 million different body language, I shall govern some of the public domain have shown that a person is lying or not:
1. The position of the body can be evidence to suggest that someone is lying, it recognizes it or not it is realized that there is a strong relationship between the mind and expression.
2. Sudden breath. In every lie, heart rate increases and breathing will be shallow / fast. Usually liar will take a deep breath to calm his feelings. This method is also applied to lie detection machine, that is, by measuring the heart rate of the person being interrogated / interviewed.
3. Anxiety in body parts. This can be seen in various ways, depending on the person. Nervous movement that will attract our attention especially do we feel when we talk to someone we know, and the people do not like the movement generally. Here is an example of the unrest in the parts of the body:
- Move forward-backward body, whether in sitting or standing position.
- Position of the sudden change. For example, your friend we're crossing one leg over the other leg, and when they begin to answer our questions, he changed the position of his feet. People who lie, even though he is a professional, will feel discomfort when he's lying. The body will always adjust our feelings without us knowing it, so position suddenly changed this is a good signal that indicates that a person is lying.
- The moves are not realizing it from the hands and feet. For example: leg shaking, shaking hands on the table, both hands glued strongly, both thighs pressed together mutually. If your friend is we're in a sitting position and then it changed the direction of your feet in the other direction, it is also a sign that the person is lying.
- False smile. Smile identical with the intimacy and trust, and the liar is often misapplied. So how do these liars smile? The liar will usually smile quite often and all of a sudden, that actually is not the place he should smile.
- Too much of the action on 'quasi-intimate, such as: your butt patting, touching you or closer to your position. Your friend you will feel clumsy when lying so they will hide kekikukannya to perform these actions. Will be very difficult to decide that someone is lying if he performed acts of friends like that. This is a natural human response. But still keep in mind, that if you feel that the closeness of your friend is already excessive, beware.
Another, a wise word is very popular saying that "when a person would lie clearly visible in his eyes.", Perhaps you have heard. But for me this way quite difficult to do than the above methods.
Dear readers, hopefully later when you're talking to someone, you are able to analyze whether the person is lying to you or not.
Capable of knowing someone is lying to you will greatly help your life for the better. Try you imagine for a moment ...
Do you have an uncomfortable feeling if you can not immediately tell whether someone is telling a lie to you?- Do you live a life where you communicate with many people and often you have a feeling like someone is lying to you but you can not identify who?
In point of fact the answer is simple. Look gestures friend are you, look at the eyes and smile. Why? Because ..... body language can not lie.
I believe we all have an experience where we listen to someone tell a story and even though what he said sounded plausible and real, but there is 'something' that tells us that such a person is not telling the truth. 'A' is actually is a message from the brain to protect us. Our brain has a remarkable ability to read quickly all that we see and untangle tanda-tanda/sinyal-sinyal. The more often we train our brain to analyze something, the more quickly and accurately the ability of our brain.
There are two ways people interact with each other: the words and body language. Sometimes one of these two approaches dominates the other, but usually they are acting in concert together. In short the way it works is as follows: after brain analyzes words and body language we talk opponents, the brain will send a message to us, that would make us react positively or negatively as suspicion, belief or doubt.
When two this way, words and body language shows a synchronization, meaning that we and your friend we managed to get an effective communication and information presented is an honesty. But what if there is a contradiction between the words uttered by the way we speak it? I've read that there are more than 1 million body language. So we are here to talk about the incredible abundance tanda-tanda/sinyal-sinyal. But again as I said above, the more often we analyze the body language, the more good we also interpret what we're talking your friend a lie or honesty. Sometimes we have to combine the 2 to 3 body language to get an accurate conclusion.
Before we talk more about how to find out someone lied or not, we had better know in advance 4 types liar:
1. Occasionally liarWe all know the lie for a living do. Unfamiliar occasional liar lie, just a couple reasons why they do it, maybe because they want to protect her, her friend, who she loved or someone else. Keep in mind that behind every lie there is always a fear. Fear to face reality. Occasional liar thinking exactly what will he say to look ridiculous. But because they are not familiar lying, still saw a lot of body language signs / signals that indicate that they are lying. Until not too difficult to identify the type liar like this.
2. Liar several timesLiar over and over again are the ones who lied 'properly'. Unlike the occasional liar, liar many times do not have time to think about a lie because they lie all his life. But they actually realize that they're lying. These people are often stuck with their actions do not match what they say.
3. Experience liarNatural liars are the ones who lied continuously and often they do not realize that they are lying. Their body language was very natural look, because habitual lying. But when they pressed with questions that cornering, body language showed the contradiction that identify that they are hiding something. Type liar liar experienced quite similar to many times. Perhaps you've heard the term 'wise guy', so this is one example of the type of natural liar.
4. Professional LiarType these liars lie for a particular purpose or deliberately deceive us. They learn all the possibilities and find out exactly what they want to say. They make the scenario, consider the risk of failure and make recommendations articles. Although they are trained to use body language, but there are always some little things they missed. We know the little things with the often observed course. One example of this type is a liar like salesmen, previously sorry I mean here is that too much salesman promoting a product but the product itself has a very low quality. Other examples are the politicians who are corrupt, they deliberately deceive the public for private interests.How can you tell whether someone is lying?
Should not be a psychologist to be able to learn and know that someone is speaking a lie or honesty. A psychologist who is skilled to know exactly his patients is lying or not, as the psychologist who interviewed Princess Diana moment. He stated that Princess Diana said when interviewed honest description of infidelity of her husband, Prince Charles.
You can even analyze such ongoing training course. Psychologists also because they can read and analyze unfamiliar people every day.
As already mentioned above there are 1 million different body language, I shall govern some of the public domain have shown that a person is lying or not:
1. The position of the body can be evidence to suggest that someone is lying, it recognizes it or not it is realized that there is a strong relationship between the mind and expression.
2. Sudden breath. In every lie, heart rate increases and breathing will be shallow / fast. Usually liar will take a deep breath to calm his feelings. This method is also applied to lie detection machine, that is, by measuring the heart rate of the person being interrogated / interviewed.
3. Anxiety in body parts. This can be seen in various ways, depending on the person. Nervous movement that will attract our attention especially do we feel when we talk to someone we know, and the people do not like the movement generally. Here is an example of the unrest in the parts of the body:
- Move forward-backward body, whether in sitting or standing position.
- Position of the sudden change. For example, your friend we're crossing one leg over the other leg, and when they begin to answer our questions, he changed the position of his feet. People who lie, even though he is a professional, will feel discomfort when he's lying. The body will always adjust our feelings without us knowing it, so position suddenly changed this is a good signal that indicates that a person is lying.
- The moves are not realizing it from the hands and feet. For example: leg shaking, shaking hands on the table, both hands glued strongly, both thighs pressed together mutually. If your friend is we're in a sitting position and then it changed the direction of your feet in the other direction, it is also a sign that the person is lying.
- False smile. Smile identical with the intimacy and trust, and the liar is often misapplied. So how do these liars smile? The liar will usually smile quite often and all of a sudden, that actually is not the place he should smile.
- Too much of the action on 'quasi-intimate, such as: your butt patting, touching you or closer to your position. Your friend you will feel clumsy when lying so they will hide kekikukannya to perform these actions. Will be very difficult to decide that someone is lying if he performed acts of friends like that. This is a natural human response. But still keep in mind, that if you feel that the closeness of your friend is already excessive, beware.
Another, a wise word is very popular saying that "when a person would lie clearly visible in his eyes.", Perhaps you have heard. But for me this way quite difficult to do than the above methods.
Dear readers, hopefully later when you're talking to someone, you are able to analyze whether the person is lying to you or not.
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